Reasons Why Men Dump Women

This is perhaps the most thought about question, for both women and men. The reasons why men dump women. Chances are, it’s for the many of the same reasons that women do. Setting aside the petty things like looks and other outward appearances, what other reasons are there when couples break up?1.) Fear plays a major part in why men dump women. Many times it’s not your fears, it’s his own. Some men fear of being tied down. Casual relationships, even sexual encounters can be the things a man may want deep down. When things start getting serious, even if it may be something as simple as planning a vacation or get away some time in the future, some will run screaming into the night. It could be a more deep-seated fear that he is afraid to talk about. Insecurities about how good of a spouse or father he will make, fear of abuse in his past, as well as many other insecurities he may be having. And again, this may also be something you as a woman may also experience as well.

2.) Trust and faithfulness are big reasons why men dump women. These things walk a line close to each other, and past experiences often fog up the present. If he isn’t trust worthy, or has been unfaithful, he might try to push this onto you in order to take away his own actions. This can work both ways in a relationship. Jealousy plays a major part in trust and faithfulness too. If a man gets jealous and upset every time you go out with friends, then chances are he doesn’t trust you. It does not matter what kind of relationship you’re in you have to trust in each other. This also goes for being to friendly or flirtatious. Many times a man will be upset when he feels his partner is being too friendly or flirtatious, with no clear boundaries set in place. It is just a good idea not to do it until both of you are ok with it.

3.) This is not at the top of the list here, but communication is one of the most important reasons why men dump women. I don’t mean nagging, or talking about dumb little every day things, but real conversations about real issues. It’s important for couples to communicate with each other about their fears and insecurities. They may find that these are common and are able to work through them together before a little problem gets out of hand. Talking with each other about trust issues helps to resolve them before they get to big and damage the relationship.

If you’re good for each other, things will work out. By acting confident and grown up, you heighten your chances of getting him to come back to you. If you get along pretty well with each other, feel connected and really want to stay together, fix it. It is worth it. It is hard to find that special person. When you do find them you need to hang on tight through the good and the not so good. You need to come together and not break up. Why break up when you can make up? Remember too, making up can be a lot of fun!

2 Comments

  1. Adelaine says:

    The thing is that you don’t have to worry about any of those awkward silences when you’re talking to a woman if you follow some general conversation guidelines. Body Language

  2. Anonymous says:

    being clingy should be number one.

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